(First published in Small World Ezine on 29 September 2003)
You must have already heard the good news... If not, the
Nigerian appeal court has overturned Amina Lawal's death
sentence last Friday.
In March 2002, Amina Lawal was sentenced to stoning to death
for having had a child while divorced. People all over the
world, including our subscribers had sent messages to the
Nigerian government protesting the sentence. Thank you all
for helping the world save another life as well as defend
human rights :)
Read more about Amina and other human rights issues at
http://takeaction.amnestyusa.org/ctt.asp?u=407908&l=6839
More and more cases like this occur everyday in the world.
The ones in power "claims" they are following religious
teachings. We have been searching and could not find
anything to support such claims. I think it's some leaders'
discrimination (and craziness). If adultery is wrong, how
come the guys who co-committed this sin had never been
punished?
Same as the practise of female circumcision (FGM -- Female
Genital Mutilation)...
I used to think that it's done by clipping the tip of the
clitoris... but when I did the search, I have found this
shocking fact...
FGM is being done in three forms:
- Sunna circumcision in which the tip of the clitoris
and/or its covering (prepuce) are removed.
- Clitoridectomy where the entire clitoris, the prepuce
and adjacent labia are removed.
- Infibulation (a.k.a. Pharaonic circumcision) which is a
clitoridectomy followed by sewing up of the vulva. A small
opening is left to allow urine and menstrual blood to pass.
In some cultures, the woman is cut open by her husband on
their wedding night. She may be sewn up again if her husband
leaves on a long trip.
This is being done in several countries in Africa. In some
countries, the practise is a tradition -- a way of life.
Something women may not like it but they'll do it to their
own daughters anyway -- just because their grandmothers had
it, their mothers had it, and they had it.
Here's what I've found...
- 90% or more of the girls in Djibouti, Ethiopia and
Eritrea, Sierra Leone, Somalia, and Sudan (North) have been
mutilated.
- over 50% of the girls in Benin, Burkina Faso, Central
African Republic, Chad, Côte d'Ivoire, Egypt, Gambia,
Guinea, Guinea Bissau, Kenya, Liberia, Mali, Nigeria and
Togo have been operated on.
- There are over 30 million mutilated women currently living
in Nigeria, and about 24 million in Ethiopia and Eritrea.
- Various groups estimate that from 114 to 130 million women
worldwide have had the operation.
Where the practise is outlawed, the girls are in even greater
danger because it would be done in a basement with household
equipment such as scissors, razor blades, or kitchen knives.
And when there are complications, parents are reluctant to
seek medical help for fear they would be convicted. This
only leads to severe infection, keloids, and even bleeding
to death in some cases... not talking about the physical
and emotional pain in those who survived.
The scary fact is, when these people migrate to other
countries, they bring the tradition with them. In countries
where locals and authorities are not aware of this
tradition, there is no law to prevent it. When a case is
brought to attention, they don't know if they should
consider the practise "child abuse" or "cultural
toleration".
England and several other E.U. countries were the fastest to
take action. Yes, they have laws against FGM. Yet, these
people still fly their daughters back to their home town to
circumcise. Canada and U.S.A. used to grant asylum to women
who did not want to return to their country and be forced to
circumcised later. Clearly, prohibition by regulations is
not going to work... U.N., WHO and several International
non-profit organisations have been trying to educate women
in/from these cultures about the risks and consequences of
FGM. The problem is how many of them these organisations
could reach, and how many of those who have been educated
will agree that this tradition is something they should not
support.
I agree that education will help open the eyes. At least
those who do it because they believe...
- if a baby's head contacts the clitoris during birth,
it will die
- it is a poisonous organ, that can cause a man to sicken or
become impotent or die if touched.
- Bad genital odors can only be eliminated by removing the
clitoris and labia minora. (This one is easy to prove
false, I guess)
- it's the only way to protect girls from men... reserve her
virginity, and so and so...
- it prevents cancer, makes girls more beautiful, etc...
- If FGM is not done, older men may not be able to match
their wives' sex drive and may have to resort to illegal
stimulating drugs (duh...).
There was a case in the U.S. that one immigrant did it to
his 3-year-old daughter because she was too active and loved
to play outside too much! He believed it would tame her.
They do it to babies, toddlers, teenagers and pregnant
women... If you were born with a critoris, they will
remove it.
Fundamentalists also try to justify the tradition by linking
it to the religion. Fact shows female circumcision was
practiced in the region thousands of years before Islam.
Today, it's being done to girls in all religious beliefs --
Muslims, Christians, Animists, and Jews. To my knowledge,
No-one can refer to anywhere in the teachings of any religion
that female circumcision is mandatory.
Other argument made to this perversive act is that
circumcision is done to prevent girls from going out and
doing bad things... (because they won't enjoy it). Okay, are
these girls being punished for something they 'MAY' do? How
about cutting everyone's hands off so that people won't
steal. Better remove their tongues too so no-one lies!
How about preventing men from raping as well?
I think everything has its pros and cons... including being a
virgin. But if you really need your daughters to remain ones
until they are married, teach them well. Tell you
something... Most of my girl friends in Thailand were still
virgins when they're married (at about 30 years old). One of
them had been seeing the guy for 10 years and the only such
experience they had was a peck on the cheek on their
engagement day (in front of the parents). It's love and
decent teachings from our parents that prevent us from
fooling around.... you see.
More:
FGM supporters also said Western women go through plastic
surgery to enlarge their breasts so what's the deal of
them circumcise their daughters? I was like, "duh..."
Pamela Anderson had it done because she wanted to... after
talking pros and cons with her doctor. And when she was not
happy with them anymore she went to her doctor to have them
removed (or made smaller). Nobody straps a baby girl to the
floor for breast implant with a knife, or were there any?
More information on this matter...
One woman's story at BBC
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/1171359.stm
If you want to cry, read the story of activists in America -
"c Comes to America"
http://www.theatlantic.com/unbound/flashbks/fgm/fgm.htm
Female Circumcision: Rite of Passage Or Violation of Rights?
http://www.guttmacher.org/pubs/journals/2313097.html
A Muslim scholar's summary and point of view on FGM...
http://www.minaret.org/fgm.htm
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